Contrary to popular thought is not at the bar! But I thought she would be more likely to talk to me if she has had some alcohol? That assumption is absolutely accurate. Unless you are simply looking to have non-committed, unemotional, and regretful intercourse with a woman this should be the last place you go to meet women!
Where Should I Go To Then?
Instead I would encourage you to go check out your local coffee shop, depending on your age hang out around the local college, online dating sites, I even heard of guys meeting girls on Facebook. And don’t ever forget you can always go to the mall.
Why Is This Better Than The Bar?
The reason is because at the bar women get approached and hit on all the time! Additionally at the bar women are going to have their guard up against guys, unless they’re looking for someone to sleep with. This unfortunately is because there is one creepy guy after another that come up and offer to buy them a drink.
Why Are These Other Venues A Better Place To Meet Women?
It is simple because very few other men approach girls in these settings. If you do then you will be seen as different than every other guy, which is a good thing.
Additionally you will be seen as confident since you don’t need alcohol to approach a girl. We have all heard how attractive this confidence in a man is.
Lastly, women don’t want to have a story of how they met their boyfriend or significant other hanging out at the bar. Instead women want to have a better story to tell their girlfriends about how they met you and if you approach her in the bookstore, on the street, or anywhere else she will be much happier with that story!
You Will See Your Success Rate Skyrocket!
Rather than compete with all the other creepy guys and approach her in a bar, why not eliminate 99% of your competition? As I mentioned very rarely do women get approached by guys at other settings than a bar. Therefore if you approach women at the grocery store, in the mall, walking down the street you will see your success rate shoot through the roof because you won’t have any competition.
Stop watching the other guy get girls. Take action today and end your lonely nights and weekends. You can find someone that you truly enjoy spending time with and sharing your life with. However at the bar you are probably only going to end a lonely night and believe it or not these experiences usually leave you feeling even more alone and more anxious to meet a good woman!